Crazy Chinese Woman

At this point of time, I certainly do not want to be Sun Tan the Singaporean blogger who want online with her open sex life.  Exciting as it may be at that time, I’m sure even with about 4 million people in Singapore, you probably don’t want to be headlines on The New Paper a Singapore local gossip papers.  I had read in a forum that Sun Tan had not meant for this to be out in the open and that she is traumatised by it all and wants this to blow over.

Well.. girlfriend.. i doubt it will blow over anytime soon.  I choose not to published those explicit pictures here.. because i have a kid too.  But it’s out there in the internet.. and if i found it.. Sun Tan .. you know for sure.. that there are more than just the picture above.. and this one is the least explicit of the lot.. that i had seen today.

I don’t know how ppl do not think of the consequences before doing something like that.  And from the pictures and videos that i’ve seen so far.. Sun Tan was anything but traumatised.  She was indeed quite happy to be taking all these pictures and movies in the public.  So Sun Tan and other girls out there .. lesson learned eh.. if you are not willing for the world to see all your private sex pictures.. donch TAKE THEM ..!!! and DON’T POST IT ON THE WWW..!!  how dumb can one get eh..??

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> From: “sun tan” sextisfy@gmail.com
> Subject: Explanation
> To: gutteruncensored@*********.com
> Date: Friday, September 19, 2008 4:03 PM

I have just read your post on gutterpost and i understand your confusion.
I apologise for not explaining myself earlier.

This email account which was previously used to communicate with you belongs to my ex boyfriend and upon learning of the circulation of the photos online, i went into this account to find out what was happening.

I never meant for this to happen and i sincerely do not wish to broadcast my pictures. I hope you can understand that I am going through an extremely trying period. If the exposure was what I had wanted I wouldn’t be trying so hard to check the spreading of the issue.

I just want to be able to carry on with life and put the past with my ex bf behind me. I never meant for this to happen and I cannot understand why the tipster want to stir up an issue which happened such a long time ago, which is causing me extreme pain and fear.

I really wish for this fiasco to blow over and there is no way I can deal with any additional amounts of exposure. As mentioned earlier, I have no idea why this email account has been used to communicate with you and it truly have been in used by my ex bf. Ever since I discovered that this email has been used to sent the information to you by the tipster, I have changed the password. At the same time, I am also trying to deal with this issue of how the pictures got out from this account to your site.

I am appealing to you to put a stop to this entire matter as i really did not meant for this to happen whatever that had happened a year ago, I really wish to put it behind me. All that is happening right now is traumatising me deeply. I am deeply shaken and completely brought down.

Please, I hope you will not pursue this further.

My blogging buddies and I are going crazy over Moonlight Resonance and everyday they are hurrying me and asking me when i am going to give them a link for the next episode.  And you know how I am, I aimed to please, so much so that I had forgotten all about paying my car insurance. Luckily, my insurance agent sent an email .. and reminded me.. !!  “whew”  !! Not a good thing to miss paying your insurance.. that’s for sure.

Ever wonder why the Body Shop bag that is supposed to save the planet.. cost $5 while other places.. with equally nice bags.. like Pete’s Frootique.. or Superstore only cost $0.99..?? Sure it’s a nice concept.. save the earth, charity.. and what nots.. building school.. and building hospital. But you and I know that labor is cheap in India..and so are materials.. and whatever else.. that goes into the bag. So nah..!! i’ll save the earth .. and save my money with another store.. because i know.. that by the time that $2 donation reaches the Canadian Women Foundation.. it wouldn’t be worth $2.

Yes.. not funny at all..!! Cecilia Cheung looked like an Ethiopian kid here. Some said she was drugged .. and some said.. she was drunk but she sure looked ok to me here. Seriously, someone please tell me.. what they see in Edison Chen..?? And why in the hell do they let him take pictures of them in this state..?? In love..?? hell to love then..! even in the heat of the passion.. one should not be left vulnerable like that right..?? there are far worst pictures than this on the net .. circulating.. than this one… and seriously.. why do they allow the man they are with .. do this to them. Firstly, Edison Chen should be sued.. for being so careless.. and a tool..! and darn stupid..!! handsome or not.. he is darn STUPID..!! he ruined the lives of all these gals..!! Boy..!! i’m heated up..! donch even get me started on it.  Can you imagine.. if she was your daughter..??

“People in Atlantic Canada are expecting heavy rain, strong winds and possible electrical outages as the remnants of Hurricane Noel hit the region this weekend.”

As at 4pm this afternoon . .the rain intensified.. and it is truly nasty out there. We closed our store at 6pm this evening and told Keegan to stay home and be safe. Glad we didn’t go on our “Eat My Way to Halifax” trip. The full brunt of Hurricane Noel is gonna hit us later on this evening.. and we donch know how much damage it will cause us here in Y-Town. So I am gonna quickly post this up.. so you all know that we are safe as at 7pm .. NS time. The skies turned from bright blue to dark black and rain began pelting.

Sometimes, I donch understand why ppl would go for pirated copies of Office or XP or anything. Afterall, you all know that it gets buggy after a few months..and you are going to run into trouble with it. For those who ain’t geeky or computer literate like me.. i’m sure i would be stumped.. should something comes up with an error.. and like me.. i’m sure you are gonna freak right out..!

So why do ppl who have money and all.. still wanna go for those pirated copies..?? i really donch understand it completely.  If i had as much money as they do.. i wouldn’t want to have anything to do with pirated copies.  Firstly, it’s wrong.. secondly .. too much of a hassle.. and thirdly.. it’s against the copyright laws.  So why risked it right..??  But nope.. 9 outta 10 customers that come  into our store.. they have pirated copies of something in their puter.. and when we suggest they get the legit copy.. all they think is we wanting more money outta them.  But it’s far from the truth.. because by getting a legit copy of XP.. you actually gained so much.. by just having all those updates and recovery done quickly.

It’s truly ironic..!! we own a video store.. and i donch watch much movies.. english ones.. i mean.. ! i mean.. i get all the new releases.. and even if it isn’t rented out on that day.. i still have no desire to really watch it.

Tell me.. it’s not ironic..!! when before .. when i had to pay for my movies.. yet.. i would be the first to be getting the newest..!! i guess humans are weird eh..??? can’t get .. so you have to try and get it.. but when you can get it easily and freely .. nope.. no way you are gonna rush for it.

And you know what ..?? i think it is the same.. when it comes to relationship..! the more you can get the gal or boy.. hahha!! the more.. die, die.. you gotta get/court her..!  Humans are sure funny creatures.. and wanna be tortured..??

Shannon from Crumbs In Life said :

“next time he come, take a photo, then put a red cross on his face, then print it out and stick on the main door … still got guts to come in… wahlau!!!!”

And guess who came back into the store the next day..???!!!?? Yah.. jerkface.. asshole..!!! and not a mentioned about the cables.. he asked us to hold.. while he rushed out to get the money in his car..!! What a blardy, baldy liar..!!! yes.. he is bald in front..!!!

Some more lah.. got face to show.. his face in our store.. and with another guy too..!!! birds of the same feathers flock together.. i guess..?? I just wonder with ppl like that.. how can anyone be his friend..?? so dishonest..!!! I bet anyone who have him as a friend.. will regret it.. once they get to know him.

MUKA SIAL..!!!

I think you also fed-up to hear me rant about teenage pregnancy.. after reading my blog for so long. And once again.. we see acts of stupidity … and these are ppl we know so well. Nope.. he isn’t a relative.. or neither is she. Both are young..!! one is 19 and the other is 18..!

Can you imagine.. someone so young .. having kids..?? and loving the idea.. and donch know what kinda impact it would have in their life..?? So naive.. and yet not so innocent.. since they got pregnant..?? And it’s not even like the parents never taught the boy about protection. I can’t speak for the gal.. coz’ i donch know her well.. but the boy comes from a good family and all. Decent folks.. !! yet how in the hell did he get into these kinda mess..??

Of course he doesn’t feel like he is in a mess.. but he is moving away to go to college and bringing the pregnant g/f along..! How are they gonna make it..?? Seriously.. these kids do not have the reality sinked in yet.. !! and the boy told me.. oh.. her mother is only 2 hrs away..!! OMG..!! 2 hrs.. is very far..!! my MIL is 15mins away.. and i thought that was far.. when we needed help..!!

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I was excited.. when i learned that someone in town was selling Wanton Soup for 10 bucks… a big bowl of it. I really donch mind paying for good food .. and guess what i got for 10 bucks.. ?? 24 wantons.. and the meat inside the wanton was small than a 1 cent coin.. !! Yup..!! you heard right..!! I mean it tasted alright and all.. but not worth the .40cents a wanton.

I assure you .. i can make better wantons than these.. !! so yup.. no more buying wanton from this person no more..!! it’s more than daylight robbery..!!! Even the chinese restaurant’s wanton soup is much more filling .. than these.. and they cooked them for you. These ones .. came frozen..!! what a real bummer..!!

But it’s alright..!! you never try you never know right..??

A few afternoon ago, while Chloe was watching TV.. and PB and I were busy doing our own things.. with a few customers in the store.. an ex- worker .. from 3.5yrs ago.. walked into our store.

I looked up.. and didn’t greet s/him as soon as i realized who it was. I’m not trying to be rude.. but really ppl like that .. i cannot phantom..! This fella .. bad-mouthed us.. even till today.. and the lastest was to Keegan our babysitter… !! asking Keegan to be careful of us.. because we deducted his pay of $120.00 3.5yrs ago. But he also conveniently forgot to tell Keegan’s b/f why we deducted his pay.

3.5yrs ago.. when I was having Chloe.. we hired him on.. to help out because I was going to deliver Chloe.. and being Christmas.. the store was very busy. Instead of helping us at the store.. thus giving PB and I free time.. to deal with the hospital and having a new baby.. everyday.. he loses money from the cashbox. Many a times.. we caught him giving back wrong change. And worst of all… he refused to collect a deposit from customer/s who had placed special orders during Christmas.. thus we lost some customer/s and irate a few too. His reason for not collecting a deposit was that “he didn’t feel right” since we didn’t have the product in stock”!!!!

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Yesterday.. at the store.. a customer came in to ask PB when he would be going to her house.. to look at her puter.. and in the meantime.. she had asked PB to loan her 5 bucks. I didn’t hear it.. and only gotten to know about it.. later in the evening.. when PB and I were alone in the store.

5 bucks isn’t a huge deal.. to be honest.. but PB was afraid.. that if he starts doing that for her.. she might come back for more.. in the future. Isn’t it funny that ppl can go around asking another for money..??

Oh .. btw.. she is the one .. that expects PB to drop everything.. and send her home in his car. So last nite.. PB sort of said.. something to the effect that it was my fault.. for offering her rides.. in the first place. But how would i know she would be this way leh..?? I asked PB to offer her rides.. because she have walking difficulty, so i wanted to be kind ma.. but as usual lah.. we kinda be like sucker like that..!

PB got a shoe for free..!!! and i was the one who told him about the sponsored post from PayU2Blog.. and he got the FREE shoe . .and not me.. !! Boo Hoo Hoo..!! Why didn’t they choose me..??? Boohooohooo..!!

But that’s alright..!! they prolly send me a pacifier instead.. kekekkkee!! oh well.. all for the fun of stuff.. At least one of us got that Nike Shoe.. it’s cool eh..?? And since we are on shoes, PB bought a knock off of the crocs for her.. and this year .. she wants to wear it. We decided to buy her the knock off first.. to see if she would really wear it .. and if she does.. we’ll get the real crocs for her.. coz’ currently, they donch have her size nor the color i want for her. Pictures to follow.

A month or so ago, I was approached by some Seafest organizer to participate in a ethnic food tasting for the Seafest for this year. Of course, I happily agreed thinking what a nice way to introduce Seafood Thai Pineapple Fried Rice or Fried Udon to the people here. I was all geared up to cook a store.. for at least 100 people who will be tasting my food. But knowing that when it comes to free food, one has gotta prepare more… because I’m sure there will be more people who will be attending seafest.

Little did i know.. that when i agreed to participate in this community service.. i can’t cook in my own kitchen.. and ingredients and other stuff are not provided either. Meaning.. i have to pay for the food .. from my own pocket..?? And cooking at the YMCA kitchen.. is sure inconvenient for me..!! how am i going to marinate.. and cook in a kitchen i am not familiar with..?? what about the pot and pans .. that i have to use..?? chopsticks.. and stuff..?? If i used my own.. is it against the hygiene regulations..??

I would have gladly cooked .. if they would provide the ingredients.. or if i can cook in my own kitchen… but with so much red tape.. i told the lady from the Agriculture department.. that i won’t be able to do it. I really do wanna do the community service.. but truth be told.. i doubt ppl here would appreciate. So i’m not gonna waste my time.. and a few hundred bucks to come up with 100 samples.

Yah.. i’m pretty obsessed…!! Obsessed with what..?? with chinese things.. anything chinese..! like now .. i am listening to Anita Mui’s song while i am typing this. And most times..i play chinese/cantonese music .. at the store.

I love my chinese shows.. more than “ang moh” shows. Love chinese food more than “ang moh” food. I donch remember being so obsessed before.. when i was in Asia. Even when i was travelling for work hor.. i rarely pick chinese food to eat.. i always wanna try some “ang moh” food. But these days hor.. no amount of cajoling would make me like “ang moh” food.

Like my mum would have said.. “huan siong” .. yup.. and quite so..! At one point hor.. everytime we have the store open, i play George Lam’s “Choy Sun Dou” ..! Yup..!! I’m just surprised .. PB hasn’t said anything about it yet..! i bet he must be thinking.. “there we go again.. the crazy chinese song” .. muahhahahhahahaha!!

Arrrghhhh..!! i’m freaking sick..!! yup.. ! and i thought i wasn’t getting it .. when PB and chloe got ill during the weekend. But yesterday came.. and i was so damn sick..!!!

Running nose.. headache.. sore throat..!! i hate the sore throat part though..!

And then this morning.. i woke up with a really, really bad headache.. and boy .. was i feeling lousy..!! i didn’t think i was able to go into the store.. at all today.. but i took a shower.. and took some tylenol.. and came into the store.

I do feel alot better now though.. i took more medication after coming into work and my throat donch hurt so much. I just wished PB would get me some ice.. to crunch on.. and not look disgusted when i am doing it. Sometimes.. i wished i can stay home.. just because i wanna crunch my ice.. because my throat just is a bitch to take care of.. and crunching ice .. keeps my sore throat at bay.

Yup..! poor PB and chloe.. both came down with a cold.. and sniffing.. and sneezing alot..!!

Chloe was a great spot today though at the store.. albeit wanting to ride her bike outside the store.. ever so often. She kept saying she wasn’t sick anymore.. but the running nose sure.. doesn’t say otherwise though. No fever or anything at the moment.. hopefully she sleeps the whole nite.. and not wake up like she did yesterday. She did wake up at 2 something.. but went back to sleep in no time.

As for PB .. well… you can see he is tired.. but he is still helping out with dishes and bottles. He claims that he is not THAT sick. Well.. i’m kinda feeling like i’m coming down with something..and nope.. it’s not good at all..!

PS : No such luck.. she woke up at 1.20am.. looking for milky.. and sniffing bad..!

Yah..!! i’m talking about ME.. yours truly..!! Yup.. ! i’m very sure..!! Every morning.. PB would wake up with the brat.. and give her milky.. feed her breakfast.. and sometimes.. already changed her poopie.. and outta her PJs .. and all… and i sleep till 11am.. sometimes earlier.. if i had to cook for the brat.. for lunch.. or need to take a shower.. before going to the store. But you get the idea.. PB does the morning thingie with Chloe.. waking up sometimes.. as early as 7am.

Today.. again .. the brat woke up at 7am.. and PB woke up with her first.. and when she woke up at 9am.. she looked for me.. so i woke up with her.. hoping to give PB a chance to sleep in .. at least once every couple of weeks.. lah..! You know lah.. ! gotta be kind right..?? hahaha!! Well.. ! as soon as the brat had her milky.. she wanted her waffles.. like NOW..!! ok.. so i did the waffle for her.. and all.. and then started feeding her.. and all.

Next she wanted .. to get outta her high chair.. so she can change into her regular clothings.. and then come back to eat. I said .. “no” .. and guess what.. !! she started screaming and crying..!! And cried she did.. !! big tears.. and screaming.. to WAKE HER PAPA UP..!!! OMG..!!!! I tried to ignore her.. but since she insist on waking her Papa up.. i slapped her on her hand..!! and let her down.. from her high chair. But of course .. not without losing it myself. Yup.. with all the screaming.. from both me and Chloe… PB woke up lah.. of course..! and then kenna spanked some more from PB.

Yup..! what a complete failure right..?? cannot even keep the brat in line.. just for one morning!! After PB woke up and all.. she quieten down.. and didn’t fuss about a change of clothes.. or anything.. because PB said.. to the brat. “We never changed your PJs before breakfast..??” …”why do you always do this to mummy..?? ” Yah.. complete failure.. “hang head down”.

The storm missed us yesterday.. and i’m thankful.. !! we donch need it at all. Reports on downpour, thunder and lightning, and the rain was very heavy… and some damages in some area.

The sky looks really gloomy right now… i’m really hoping we ain’t gonna be hit by the store… that would sux big time.

Oh.. we ain’t doing the flea market tomorrow.. but will be opening the store for a couple of hours.. just because .. our customer/s still comes in .. if we are open. Can’t refuse the money right..??

OMG..!! another one of those case.. where kids goes wild in our store..!! but this ain’t as bad as the one we had yesterday..!!!

Customer comes in with kids to get work done on puter.. and OMG ..!! kids run wild.. !! and take everything out .. from the shelves.. and even go into the security camera box.. and opened it.. to see what’s inside. While the younger kid rides on one of chloe’s bike.. the older one.. wanted to ride on chloe’s Dora bike. The kid doesn’t understand .. that he is too heavy for the bike.. and then they messed with Chloe’s Dora tables and chairs.. and wants to go into the tent .. and then mess up the other stuff in the store.. and worst of all.. tries running outta the store.. several times..!!

My chloe went to the croc store for some shoes with PB .. and all she did was sit .. on the bench.. of the store.. and wait for PB to be done. She did get a wee bit cranky at the end.. because she wanted a croc.. and they didn’t have her size.. other than that… PB said.. she behaved.. and didn’t do those things.. that those kids did at our store. And if she was.. she would have been taken outta the store immediately .. instead of being left to wreck someone’s store. We won’t allow it..! period…!