I think you also fed-up to hear me rant about teenage pregnancy.. after reading my blog for so long. And once again.. we see acts of stupidity … and these are ppl we know so well. Nope.. he isn’t a relative.. or neither is she. Both are young..!! one is 19 and the other is 18..!
Can you imagine.. someone so young .. having kids..?? and loving the idea.. and donch know what kinda impact it would have in their life..?? So naive.. and yet not so innocent.. since they got pregnant..?? And it’s not even like the parents never taught the boy about protection. I can’t speak for the gal.. coz’ i donch know her well.. but the boy comes from a good family and all. Decent folks.. !! yet how in the hell did he get into these kinda mess..??
Of course he doesn’t feel like he is in a mess.. but he is moving away to go to college and bringing the pregnant g/f along..! How are they gonna make it..?? Seriously.. these kids do not have the reality sinked in yet.. !! and the boy told me.. oh.. her mother is only 2 hrs away..!! OMG..!! 2 hrs.. is very far..!! my MIL is 15mins away.. and i thought that was far.. when we needed help..!!
I can go on and on.. but in reality.. he ain’t my kid.. and there is really nothing i can say or do.. to make him realised.. what a big mistake he is making. He is gonna live to regret it.
July 25th, 2007 at 8:47 am
oh, that’s sad. Teenagers nowadays are weak…that’s why I keep on reminding my dear daughter about those things, even if she does not have a bf yet. More like brainwashing
You are doing the right thing.. Girlie,
One cannot be too careful.. !!! We have to protect our daughters right..??
July 26th, 2007 at 8:26 am
I think I should also brainwash my 2 gals about these things from young. My cousin sister got herself into a similar mess when she was 19 yrs old and a few yrs later, she and her hubby separated.
No choice .. Shireen,
Gotta protect our own right..??
July 27th, 2007 at 2:46 am
i totally agree with you. i told my husband to prepare the big “sex” talk so when the boys are ready he can talk to them—and they’re six and two and the half. hahahahahahaha!
Hey.. Jen,
I donch blame you for thinking this way.. because I do too.. !! so frightening .. when you see kids having kids.. !! such a shame..!! they haven’t even enjoyed their life.. !! and then got so much responsibilities.. but they reality wouldn’t sink in right then.. !! that’s when the shock comes.